Service Dog Training Fund!

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Service Dog Training Fund!

Looking for help to get Phx the proper service dog training she needs to help me be independent again! Read more.

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  • $2,000Goal
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My name is Daysia, as most of you already know. A year ago I finally made the choice to seek help for my mental illnesses. After being stuck in my house for almost 3 years and only going in the car if I left my house...I had to make a change. It was so hard to go to therapy for the first time. I had been struggling with extremely bad anxiety for so long that I don't even remember what we talked about in the first few sessions. I was just focused on not passing out from hyperventilating. After a few months of going once a week, I got used to being there and started to look forward to leaving my house again. I was diagnosed with Agoraphobia/Generalized Anxiety Disorder/Major Depressive Disorder and PTSD. My Agoraphobia is pretty much gone now because it stemmed from being scared of having panic attacks in public. (I'm still working on that) I was put on a few medications that I think have been helping me. I have made so much progress in the last year. I finally started driving alone (I still struggle with this) but I have been able to go to places near me. I still am not able to go into stores/public alone. I really struggle with the thought of "If something happened to me and no one is there, what will I do?" I'm trying to work on it but it's my biggest fear I'm trying to conquer right now.

As most of you know, Nick joined the Army. When he graduates in mid-April, we will soon be shipped somewhere for the next 5 years. I understand now, after talking to other military wives...that I will be alone A LOT more than we originally were told. I'm absolutely terrified of that. I have never lived in another state/country. I won't know anyone and I'll have to go do things alone most of the time. Our goal was to get Phx fully trained before we moved so I will have her to alert me/calm me down and make me feel safe in public and hopefully, I'll be able to find a job again that I feel safe at.

We adopted Phx in February 2019, for the purpose of one day being my service dog. We started with owner training and she learned a lot! However, in public, she is too distracted and it's hard to get to mind her manners. My mental illnesses make it extremely hard for me to train her in public by myself. I don't do well in public as it is and when she's not behaving I get really overwhelmed. Owner training alone has not worked for us. She is very smart and learns quickly but I am not able to give her the proper training that she needs to be successful.

Now that you know our backstory, we want to send her to a board-and-train here in Phoenix, AZ. There they will be able to give her one on one training every day and get her basic obedience to where it needs to be! From there we will work on task training. It is very important to us that I have her as a medical tool before we move. Nick won't be able to be there for me 24/7 and I won't be able to live that far from home without someone helping me. I am very optimistic that she will succeed in this program. I have already contacted a few highly successful board-and-train

For our wedding gift we are asking for help to pay for her training. We have some money saved but we just don't have enough to cover all of the costs. Anything helps and it would mean the world to me if I could have her helping me live my life again.

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